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Does God want us to help everyone who asks for help?

February 28, 2026 · 2 min

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Are we really supposed to say "yes" to everyone who asks for help? It can be really tricky. So let's discuss how we can prioritize saying yes God's priorities over our own. There is a difference between doing "good work" and "God work."

How to start breaking free of people-pleasing and align with God's will:
1. Recognize when your desire to help becomes a habit of people-pleasing.
2. Dig into scripture to identify God's priorities. Pray, consult the Holy Spirit. Connect with Christian Leaders who God has surrounded you with who have wisdom and can help point you to places in scripture.
3. Establish a priority order: Say "yes" to God before saying "yes" to people.
4. It's hard, but instead of trying to be the answer to everyone's problems, let's point them back to the one who really is, Jesus.

📖 Scripture:
• But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. (Matthew 6:33)

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Do you think God wants us to help everyone who asks for help? When I was a kid in elementary school, my parents would give me $5 for lunch. And every day I would have friends come up to me telling me they didn't have enough money for lunch and ask me to help. And so I'd buy my main meal for $2 and give the other $3 to my friends. My parents would tell me that my friends were taking advantage of me, but feeding my friends felt like the right thing to do, right? Internally, I didn't want to say no to people asking for help. And whether or not that was the right thing to do, that saying no thing stuck with me my whole life. I became a massive people pleaser. Years later, when playing sports with my friends, we'd have sweaty jerseys. Someone would say, "Hey, Justin, do you mind washing them?" And then it would turn into Justin is always the one washing our jerseys. Following the same theme, I don't want to let people down. Is that bad? Is that good? Does God want us to say yes to everybody asking for help? What if someone said, "Help me rob a bank." Now, that might feel more clear cuz it's against the law. But what if somebody asked you to do something that goes against what God wants, but is technically legal? Like the friends that ask you to lie for them? Does God want us to help everyone asking for help? And it gets even messier when you think about all the people that actually need help in the world. I can't help but think of the scripture that says, "But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well." There is a priority order. Seek first his kingdom and his righteousness. As someone who's been a people pleaser his whole life and wants to say yes to everybody, I will often say yes to people before I say yes to God. So what if we prioritize the things that God wanted first? If we say yes to everybody out there before prioritizing what he asks us to do in here. I think of the one quote from the book of God that says when what is not sin helping people takes precedence over the word of the Lord it can become sin. There's a difference between doing good work and God's work. So are we supposed to say yes to everybody asking for help? I would suggest that if it goes against the priorities that God has given us in scripture or what the Holy Spirit is telling us or even leading us away from God. I think the answer is no. We're not supposed to say yes to all people asking for help because God says seek first his kingdom and he has a priority order. And yeah, we're going to disappoint people. I don't want to disappoint people. I don't want to let them down. I want them to like me. But more importantly, we are called to lead them to God. We aren't supposed to be the answer to their problems. God is. He will use us to help them. But we need to not compromise God's values to help other people feel better. It's hard, but it's possible. And I'm praying for you today. campus.